A small wave from Lititz
Here I am. I unpacked the entire mess in 4 days. I was driven to be *home* again. Much of my stuff does not fit, it is piled up in the 4th bedroom in the basement, all except for 3 of my couches.
The movers claimed they could not get them in so they dumped them in the garage. One of them is a lovely sofa I have had for 30 years, currently recovered in gorgeous but brittle chintz cotton. I expect the worst.
So, all my efforts to the contrary, I am going to have put some of this in real storage. The killer here is that I took this dirty, crummy duplex house mostly for the storage. Go Figure.
The place was filthy, I have done what I could to clean it. The grease and dirt encrusted cabinet handles in the kitchen have been replaced (the $30 it cost me is well worth it). The dead bugs have all been cleaned out of the light fixtures and the walls/doorknobs scrubbed, the linoleum floors too (Linoleum, I have not had floors made of that in 28 years). And the bathrooms!!!
This feels like a huge step back in my life, like I have regressed. Meanwhile back at the ranch, my empty house is being shown, zero interest yet.
It is odd, I had 3 sales while I was off-line. None before and none since. Another Go Figure.
I am pretty much going to have to start marketing NewNeedlepoint.com from scratch.
What ever blog readership I had is long gone, my extended absence has not been good for this pitiful little blog but truthfully, I had nothing to say that anyone wanted to hear.
No one wants to hear how tired & sore I am.
One interesting tidbit however. For the last few years the only needlepoint stitching I had done was samples for my web store. When I stopped listing Bargello Needlepoint I no longer had to do that anymore (although I am told I should be stitching some of the canvases I sell, I don’t see the point since they are all one-of-a-kind).
So, I had begun to do my own neglected needlepoint again but now, my hands & arms are so sore & stiff I can’t hold the needle. I hope this is temporary but who knows, I can’t , at 60, do what I did at 40 and then snap right back and that is no joke.
Jack The Cat did wonderfully on this long 3 day car trip. He hates his kitty carrier and meowed the whole time he was in it but once we let him out, he sat between us on the console the whole time.
I think as long as he could feel us both there, he was ok, There or in one of our laps. He was great in the hotels too. He always used his cat box and ate well (we could not feed him before a ride, he got sick.
His only real protest was the last morning, Keith was at work and I had to put Jack in his kitty carrier one more time and take him to our new house and wait for the movers.
He took one look at the kitty carrier and disappeared under the bed (s). He would not come out. I ended up having to lift both queen size beds and stand the mattresses & box springs on their sides to get him.
Ok, the movers were a disaster, no surprise there. They stacked my boxes to the trailer’s roof with no regard to fragile markings. They arrived quite crushed and with much minor damage to my things.
Now on to Hotels. Keith stayed, the 10 days he was here before he came to get us, at a Hawthorne by Wyndham, it was OK.
Our first night on the road was at Country Inns & Suites, it was very nice, very clean and they were nice about Jack.
The second night we were in a Holiday Inn Express, not so clean but they allowed us to have Jack. Pet Friendly Hotels are not so easy to find.
Ok, we got here and stayed at the Host Hotel in Lancaster. It was a huge former Holiday Inn resort. It was so old that there was no elevator. To comply with the law they had a wheelchair lift. We had to hump all our bags & Jack and all of it up 3 steep flights of stairs. We stayed there, in the shabby, not redecorated since the 70′s room for 2 nights. On the third day a cockroach scampered across the bed.
I freaked and we moved out. We went across the street to the Red Roof Inn, the only other pets allowed place in the area. Huge Mistake. It was filthy, really grimy and sad. The rooms were so small that we got 2 rooms, one of each of us (they had no connecting doors). We would have killed each other shoved into one tiny filthy room together (with Jack, who stayed in my room).
The red roof in also had roaches, the toilets plugged up anytime you used them and my room had 1 working light fixture or lamp, the other 2 did not work.
The free breakfast room was filled with flies, buzzing you as you tried to eat their “free breakfast” garbage.
We had no place else to go so we stayed 2 nights until the movers came.
So, Pennsylvania is lovely, this area is mostly rural with enough industry to be affluent. The Amish are something, on Sunday their carriages are everywhere as they visit each other after church. The single men must drive open top carriages, only married men may drive a closed carriage. I did not see a woman driving anything.
The Mennonites are different, they dress colorfully, but from a different time. I see them in Walmart & Target and the supermarket, the women with their lovely little caps on.
I saw a group on Mennonite girls clustered around a computer at Target, they were giggling and seemed fascinated. I can’t imagine a like, today without internet but they obviously can & do.
There are many local Farmer’s Markets and lots of local produce, that is wonderful and we can get Poland Spring water from Maine here (not in Florida)
So, here I am. Here we go again.
ARGGGGGH
This is me, post hysterics. The packers arrived today to pack just my larger pictures and the glass table tops & shelves etc.
I have packed 146 boxes, with Valerie & Doreen’s help. 146! That is a lot of boxes, I did a count today to be sure.
So anyway, it is summer in S. Florida. It rains several times every day and is steamy hot the rest of time, 98% humidity.
The packers arrived bright and early this morning with the boxes to pack my art, much of which is original art. It has been raining off & on all morning. The boxes in the back of the open truck were wet.
I freaked out, gently at first, and told them they could not pack my pictures in wet boxes
They sent one of the guys back for more boxes, in the open truck. Meanwhile, when I asked how they managed doing this with open pick up trucks I was told they have closed vans but they were all busy, so I got the open truck.
Ka-Boom! I got the open truck since I was less important then the other customers.
Then the packer tells me some of my glass can’t be wrapped, it has to be crated (at $80 per crate & labor).
The representative at the moving company told me the paperwork said I would crate the glass myself.
Me, I am going to crate a 72 inch by 25 inch double glass coffee table. Me?
So, I am crying and thinking hard about firing them, unpacking and staying here. Remember, I am still only 6 months away from the last move (remember when the movers showed up with just 1 truck of a promised 2 and the move was a disaster?)
So, then to put the cherry on the cake of my day, I get an email about a check I wrote for my nieces’s wedding next week. I am her financial trustee and she has procrastinated letting me know how much money she needs to pay for this wedding.
I told her (and her brother, her advocate) that I was moving the next week or so and could not write checks but they waited till the last moment to tell me how much and now they say they can’t cash the check, that it should have been made out to someone else, not her.
AGH
I had no solution, the idea of tearing open boxes to get the stuff to re-write the checks did not appeal to me. (hardly). Fortunately, my parents wrote her a check and the trust (me) will pay them back next week.
Like I need this now.
Next time I say I am moving, just shoot me (No, don’t…I am going to a crummy rental and I hope it is not for long, I am keeping all my boxes.
Here is my consumer tip for the day. A medium/small size cardboard box, for moving or storage costs $4.50 at Target. It is under a dollar at Home Depot.
Amazing.
I wonder what disaster will happen next? BTW, I am not supposed to still be on-line but I haven’t unhooked and returned my modem to Comcast yet…it seems as long as I have it, it works.
the last blog
No, it is not my last blog ever. It is just my last blog before I go off line for a week or 10 days to do this move.
I know I have not written anything here since I announced this new move. Another move which makes 4 moves in 2 years.
I have spared you, all my gentle readers (to steal a written affectation from the late great Dorothy Parker) my endless complaints, curses, whining, moaning et al while I packed and arranged for the new move.
I spared you my poor 60 year old shoulder and right arm in my poor old decrepit 60 year old body.
I think this was a genuine act of kindness on my part, since I am such a self-sacraficing person (way way overstatement, bordering on bullshit alert).
OK, I am all packed. I had wonderful help from the estimable Valerie & Doreen the owners of the Scrubbie Bubbles Cleaning Service. They are marvelous cleaners not to mention incredible women, We had a blast packing the boxes and yakking non-stop.
I called them today today and asked them in a stupid fake voice if this was the “Scrubbie Bubbles Cleaning Co” and then told them “my bubbles needed scrubbing”. I could not resist.
There is so much involved in an interstate move, so many piddly and annoying details. Plus my house is on the market here so I had to arrange for people to take care of it (guess who!).
We have rented a total dump in Lititz, PA. The town in lovely, it is one of those “unique little stores and lots of antique shops and cafes” small towns. My rented house however, is a throwback to my pre-homeowner days, when I did not ask much of a rental ( If you know what I mean).
It has 1 and 1/2 bathrooms but I would not get too thrilled about that, the 2nd toilet is in the laundry room in the basement. 3 bedrooms with a sort of a 4th , again in the basement.
The place is maybe 1000 sq feet. I am coming from a 2500 sq ft hpouse with a enclosed pool patio (and custom closets, boo hoo). There are 2 big advantges to this place, the rent is real cheap and the downstairs part if big enough so I can store all my overflow (there is a lot of it) down there, safe & dry and not have to pay for a storage thingie.
OK, so once again I have taken up my trusty tape gun and done it. I packed this entire house in 9 days.
And where, you might ask, is Keith? Keith is up there in PA, he has been since 7/2. He started the job 7/6 and left me to do all this alone (again).
I plan to punish him, it might take me years to get over this.
NewNeedlepoint.com Remember that? It is a dead duck even among dead ducks (absolutely no quacking from anywhere). I sell a book or 2 a week, once in a blue moon a (cheap) canvas or kit.
The rest of it (and I) feel like we are on hold.
I know I am not doing my part. I should be here on my blog every other day, as usual, sparking and witty about something or other related (however vaguely) to needlepoint.
Yes, I have new unlisted books. Yes I have unlisted rare books. Who cares? Not me, not today.
Let me get this over with, get settled in Lititz, PA and all unpacked and then I will try to breathe some life into poor old NewNeedlepoint.com. She deserves it.
don’t forget, we have 18 hours in the car with Jack The Cat. He hates the car.
I will be off line until the end of next week. See you then.